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Arnold Friend is inspired by a real-life serial killer Charles Schmid, who wore his hair in a shoe polish black pompadour and stuffed his shoes with newspaper, a tactic Arnold Friend seems to share: “Evidently his feet did not go all the way down; the boots must have been stuffed with something so that he would seem taller” (263). Like Arnold’s ride-along Ellie, the real-life Schmid’s friend listened to the radio while his first murder took place. These true-to-life details instill a chilling effect. However, Oates adds a new dimension to Arnold when, throughout his visit with Connie, he begins to exhibit an otherworldly knowledge of information he should not possess. When Connie asks how he knows her name, Arnold rattles off the names of children from Connie’s school. His aim is to prove that he is the same age as Connie and from the same social circles Connie belongs to, but when Connie suggests that her family will be back soon, Arnold convincingly describes her family’s current whereabouts and actions as if he has the power to see them.
When interpreted as the embodiment of death, Arnold’s strange behavior, awkward appearance, and constant grinning gain depth and nuance. While trying to lure Connie into his car, Arnold continuously implies a prearranged meeting, as though their encounter had been predetermined. He tells her, “Connie, you ain’t telling the truth. This is your day set aside for a ride with me and you know it” (256). What previously seemed insidious ranting now implies the predeterminism of death’s sudden arrival. Arnold’s appearance is a continuum of allusions to the reaper. Although he has taken his wardrobe and mannerisms direct from the crowd of Connie’s drive-in restaurant and favorite music, Arnold’s quirk for constantly grinning, laughing, and gnashing his teeth are references to a skeleton’s permanent smile. Later, Arnold likens Connie’s home to a “cardboard box I can knock down anytime. You know that and always did know it. You hear me?” (265). Here, Oates uses an allusion to the poetic tradition of the sublime; like Percy Bysshe Shelley’s Romantic Era sonnet Ozymandias, which meditates on the broken stone effigy of a once great ruler in a desert wasteland, man and the constructs invented by man all fall victim to death’s leveling power. Through Arnold, Oates compresses the symbology of death with the grisly reality of men who hunt women. The result is an enduring and terrifying tableau.
Connie’s vanity is a central part of her growth throughout the story, represented in the ways she constantly primps in mirrors, giggles at suitors, and—when Arnold Friend finally comes up her father’s driveway—obsesses about her hair. To Connie, there seems to be little in life that is of more importance than a person’s outward appearance, as it is often the first thing that she remarks on when considering other characters in the story. She believes that her mother might have been beautiful once but only in a distant past; she calls her sister “lumpy” and boring.
Connie’s preoccupation with looks is rivaled only by her appreciation for pop culture romance. The narrator suggests that Connie’s mind is always filled with “trashy daydreams.” This, more than her need for validation through her outward appearance, leads Connie into dangerous situations, as she pursues casual sex, regularly spending time alone with young men and doing so without anyone knowing where she is. To Connie, these situations are not dangerous but vivid experiences of tenderness: “[H]er mind slipped over onto thoughts of the boy she had been with the night before and how nice he had been, how sweet” (253). While she dries her hair in the sun, she dreams about the soft caresses of boys she has been with until their faces blend into one, again asserting that Connie’s romantic ambitions are not indicative of a connection to any other person; rather, they are a product of narratives perpetuated by the popular music culture she is preoccupied with.
However, when Connie is confronted with Arnold, her growth is put into sharp relief. Having cornered Connie inside her home, Arnold tells her that she can come with him or allow him to wait for her family to return from Aunt Tillie’s cookout. This presents Connie with an ultimatum, forcing her to choose between herself and her family. When she stands up and goes outside to Arnold Friend, she does not know where she is going or what will happen to her. There are many ways to read this very ambiguous ending, but Connie’s final choice to sacrifice herself for her family’s survival may represent a resolute choice to shed the fantasies of childhood and meet reality on its own terms.
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