Say You'll Remember Me

Content Warning: This section of the guide includes discussion of child abuse, addiction, illness, and death.

Xavier Rush is a dedicated veterinarian whose reserved demeanor masks deep compassion. Shaped by an abusive childhood that left him distrustful of people and uncomfortable with praise, Xavier channels his energy into helping animals and building his Minnesota veterinary practice. His traumatic upbringing drove him to prove his worth through professional success. As a result, his character is competent and caring but emotionally guarded. Though outwardly stoic, Xavier displays profound tenderness toward animals and eventually Samantha, revealing his capacity for connection despite his difficulty expressing emotions.

Throughout the narrative, Xavier struggles with balancing his professional responsibilities against his growing love for Samantha. Working exhaustive hours at both his clinic and emergency veterinary shifts to afford cross-country travel, he demonstrates remarkable commitment but at significant personal cost. His character development culminates in his decision to leave his practice and move to California to be with Samantha—a choice representing his ability to prioritize love over professional achievement and to break free from defining himself through his parents’ negative expectations. Xavier’s journey illustrates how the right relationship can heal past wounds and redirect priorities, as he ultimately recognizes that proving himself to his abusive parents matters less than building a life with someone who truly sees him.