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50 pages 1 hour read

Olugbemisola Rhuday-Perkovich

Operation Sisterhood

Fiction | Novel | Middle Grade | Published in 2022

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Themes

The Dynamics of Blended Families and Sisterhood

The central conflict of the book emerges from the challenges Bo faces after her mother marries Bill and they become a part of a large, new family. This context is vital in the book, and the story explores the dynamics of blended families and sisterhood. Operation Sisterhood depicts both the advantages and the challenges of a blended family through Bo’s struggles to adjust to her new circumstances, demonstrating the importance of open communication in creating healthy family relationships.

The Dwyer-Saunders family is unusual in that they are not just a family by blood or marriage, but are co-housing families who live and raise their children together. Bo has to contend with a blend of fluidity and compromise in the way the family does things: There is openness and flexibility in how things are approached, especially education and learning. However, this flexibility is complemented with adjustments. One cannot always make independent and individualistic decisions, as Bo learns when she is thrown into the rotation for shared chores and swimming lessons, among other things.

Besides the particularities of the Dwyer-Saunders family setup, Bo also has to contend with the general changes of moving from a single-child and single-parent home to a larger, blended family. She acquires a new sibling and parent, and a larger extended family, and in turn has to share her mother, too, with the other girls. Bo struggles with the lack of alone time she now has with her mother, who was the closest relationship in her life. On the other hand, her new family leaves Bo with more people to rely on for support, education, and entertainment.

The largest struggle within a large, blended family is balancing the different opinions and ways of doing things. Especially coming from different backgrounds, each person is used to a certain way of doing things. Coming together as a new family additionally brings with it a set of expectations about people and relationships. Bo fights hard to preserve her time and space, and even the things she loves, like baking, for herself. Sunday, on the other hand, expects that her new sister will be like her twin, with the same dynamic that Lil and Lee share. Lola assumes that Bo will enjoy her new sisterhood so much that she does not check in and see how her daughter is doing. The balance between individual and collective needs, Bo’s experience demonstrates, is difficult to achieve in such a large family.

Once things boil over, however, Bo realizes that she has been suppressing how she feels to ensure that no one else is displeased and that suppressing her frustration has only made it worse. It is important to have open and honest conversations instead. Differences and disappointments are an inevitable aspect of being part of a large, blended family. The upside is having a sisterhood to lean on for support during tough times. This is seen in the way the sisters comfort Lee when she is not allowed to add one more pet to the family, or in the way they cheer Bo up when she discovers that her Paris-Lagos trip is canceled. Most importantly, Bo discovers that her personal needs can only be met when she openly expresses them to the people who care about her so that they can help her fulfill them. Rather than causing further conflict, Bo discovers that being honest even about negative emotions resolves conflict. In this way, the book explores the challenges and positives of blended families and underlines the need for healthy communication.

The Role of Community in Fostering Belonging and Support

The book presents building communities outside of biological and familial relationships as being of crucial importance to the well-being of individuals and groups. This theme is explored through Bo and Lola’s initiation into the Dwyer-Saunders family as well as through the family’s eventual integration into their neighborhood. Though the novel shows that community-building can be difficult, it also demonstrates that a community can provide its members with sources of support, joy, and self-discovery that would otherwise be unavailable.

For Bo, the first kind of community she must build is within her new family. Having lived as an only child all her life, she is apprehensive of how she will fit in with her new sisters. Surrendering some of her independence to accommodate the other members of the family is difficult for her. As she settles in, however, Bo discovers that she enjoys belonging to a sisterhood. Shared experiences are a large part of what fosters the sense of community Bo feels with the girls. This includes everything from household chores and freeschooling projects to picnics, family conversations, and playing music together. As Bo shares more experiences and activities with her new sisters, she feels more connected to them.

The idea of community in the book extends beyond the immediate family, and the adults around Bo recognize this, especially because they are at first not entirely accepted in their neighborhood. Rather than isolate within their own world, however, the adults actively make an effort to foster relationships within their neighborhood. The fight to rebuild the community garden, and taking on its responsibility is a huge part of the effort to win some community goodwill. This sense of initiative also trickles down to the children, and they, too, extend their energies into their community. Like their parents, they work to identify the needs of the people around them and figure out how they can fulfill them using their unique talents and interests, resulting in their babysitting band initiative. The same things that worked within the sisterhood yield success with the larger community: shared experiences, especially those that create a sense of belonging.

These shared experiences revolve around food and music. Just as the girls enjoyed picnicking together when they were all first bonding, they similarly offer neighbors like Ms. Tyler homemade goodies. An exchange of different kinds of food later becomes a huge part of the block party as well. Similarly, music and performance also bring both the sisterhood and the community together. It united the girls in their new band, and it became a way for them to help the community by extending their musical babysitting services. It also becomes a way for the neighborhood to partake and participate in the celebration at the block party via the community talent show.

The block party ultimately represents a culmination of this theme and the different ideas it explores. The party comes to be because the Dwyer-Saunders family is determined to build a sense of community within the neighborhood. The adults recognize the collective benefits that the community garden can reap for everyone, and the girls recognize that having a fun, inclusive celebration at the garden will allow their neighbors to get to know each other and the new garden space. At the party, they are rewarded for their efforts by the sense of acceptance and belonging that the neighborhood offers, fostered by their sense of gratitude and recognition of the family’s efforts and talents. The party also demonstrates how shared experiences can bring a community together in celebration and support.

Personal Growth and Finding One’s Voice

Operation Sisterhood revolves around Bo’s experiences of becoming part of a large, blended family. Both The Dynamics of Blended Family and Sisterhood and The Role of Community in Fostering Belonging and Support facilitate Bo’s personal growth. Though Bo frequently feels that her individual growth and self-expression are in tension with the demands her new family and community place on her, she eventually discovers that it is in the context of these new, more extensive relationships that she can forge a path to self-discovery and authentic self-expression.

In her life before becoming a part of the Dwyer-Saunders family, Bo is very clear about who she is and what she likes: She enjoys baking, drumming, and spending time with a select few people, particularly her mother, and Dougie. An inherently orderly and organized person, Bo is comfortable sticking with the familiar and the predictable. However, Bo is only 11 years old, and at such a young age this kind of rigidity proves limiting. Her life is confined to narrow boundaries. She does not want to try new experiences and is wary of forming close relationships with new people because she is worried about something going wrong. These are the apprehensions that Bo carries with her into her new life with the Dwyer-Saunders family.

To Bo’s surprise, despite her apprehensions, she discovers that there are parts of her new life that she enjoys. Her expectations about several things are different than the reality, from the rigor and work involved in freeschooling to how good it feels to be included in a sisterhood. Even things she previously avoided, like swimming, turn out to be enjoyable. Bo’s new family pushes her out of her comfort zone, allowing her to discover new aspects of her personality and talents. The way new aspects of Bo’s personality unfold through new challenges and activities shows how her growth had previously been stifled by her resistance to new experiences.

Despite these discoveries—and sometimes because of them—Bo faces a new challenge: She finds it difficult to be her honest self. Bo does not quite know who she is in the context of a larger family, and she feels especially uncertain about how to communicate her needs and negative emotions to them now that she wants them to like her. Partly to keep the peace and partly because she craves their acceptance, Bo tiptoes around her new family until she can no longer hide how uncomfortable and overwhelmed she has been feeling. She believes that to please her family, she must stifle a piece of herself.

Bo can only keep such feelings inside for so long, however, and eventually, she reaches the point where she finally confesses to Sunday and Lola the frustration and fear she has been experiencing. Both Sunday and Lola are open and empathetic to Bo, and both work to reassure her and to ensure that she has what she needs from them going forward to be happy. Bo discovers that keeping her true feelings hidden results in frustration and repression, whereas honest communication will help her both navigate the dynamics of a blended family and be true to herself and her own needs. Thus, Bo’s journey, which begins as she joins the Dwyer-Saunders family, sees her learning to balance expressing herself and asserting who she is while keeping an open mind to the possibility of experiencing and enjoying new things. By finding her voice, Bo not only grows as a person but forges stronger relationships with the people she loves.

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