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Mira Jacob

Good Talk: A Memoir in Conversations

Nonfiction | Graphic Memoir | Adult | Published in 2019

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Symbols & Motifs

Conversation

“Every time Z asked me a question, I would remember all the times I had asked similar questions growing up. All the things I’d been told. All the things that still didn’t make sense” (14). Mira wrote her memoir Good Talk on difficult conversations that she has had with important people in her life. She features conversations with her son Z, her husband Jed, and her extended family, friends, coworkers, dates, and strangers. Through the depiction of these conversations, Mira develops a motif about the importance of conversation in not only relationships but in the development of the self and the way a person grows to view the world. Because Mira chose to write a graphic novel rather than traditional novel, the dialogue serves an extra significant purpose in conveying characterization, emotion, tone, and plot.

The memoir opens as Mira’s six-year-old son Z, becomes obsessed with Michael Jackson. He begins asking questions Mira did not expect him to ask for a few more years, such as, “Are you going to turn white?” (6) and “What did Michael Jackson like being better, brown or white?” (12). As a mother, Mira is lost on how to answer these important questions. She does not want to provide her son with information or opinions that will dampen his view of himself or the country in which he lives; at the same time, she wants to be honest with Z. She tries to toe this line while also maintaining a sense of humor by calling it Z’s “new color theory” (11). Mira seeks advice from friends and Jed about how to talk with Z, but she finds the most effective means is by looking back on her own experiences in conversation. As a child and young adult, the conversations Mira overheard and took part in shaped the way she viewed herself as a brown woman and the way she viewed America: “In America, I would forget about being too dark for years at a time. Then I’d meet new Indians” (40). She knows the same will be the case for Z and wants to be as careful as possible. Mira also finds that throughout her life, these difficult conversations have a way of either reinforcing bonds or breaking them. She connects with Jed due to their ability to talk about anything, but she and Jed find themselves disconnected from Jed’s parents when the topic of racism is brought up in conversation one too many times.

Family

Members of Mira’s family have both positive and negative influences over her life and her self-image, and these influences help shape who she becomes. Beginning when Mira is young, her grandparents say her skin is too dark and supply her with some “Fair & Lovely” (36) cream to lighten it. Her mother seems to be in denial of her skin, often claiming it to be as light as hers, but simultaneously reminding Mira on a regular basis that she is not beautiful. Mira’s husband, Jed, is her rock and support system. He is the voice of reason when Mira’s emotions are running high, and he seems to have infinite patience. Like Mira, Jed speaks in a very matter-of-fact way and the two usually understand each other. Jed’s parents start out as quirky and warm people who accept Mira openly. However, as time goes on, Mira and Jed sense subtle acts of racism from Jed’s parents, which eventually culminate in them voting for Trump. This causes a several-month-long rift between the two families, which does not begin to be mended until the memoir’s conclusion. Mira admits to Jed, “I am going [to Florida to visit your parents] for all of us” (344). She has seen how much Z misses his grandparents and how much it affects Jed to be away from them. She tries her best to put politics aside for the sake of family. In her memoir, Mira honestly explores what it is like to have politics tear apart close family bonds—an experience of many Americans at the time.

Family is a central motif in Mira’s memoir, Good Talk, and her husband Jed and son Z play central roles. She wrote the memoir partly for herself and to process her own experiences with racial discrimination in America and partly for her son. Mira makes it clear that Z is everything to her: “You were facing the water and wearing your blue swimsuit and I knew [… t]hat you were mine to protect like nothing else ever will be” (345). When Mira is in college, she does not even intend to have children; however, as she gets older, she begins having visions of Z. Soon, she meets Jed, and having Z just feels right. Z is a mixed-race East Indian Jewish American, thus Mira worries for his future as a brown man living in the United States. In her life, she has found it challenging to overcome discrimination in school, the workplace, her dating life, and even in her own family. It pains her to think of Z going through the same things, and when he begins asking questions like, “Will [Donald Trump] become angry with me if he becomes president?” (179), Mira worries that his experiences with racialization have already begun. Z is an observant child; he sees the protests and watches the news. He is acutely aware he is looked at as being not American due to his skin color. Mira uses her own experiences and puts them into an organized form: a memoir. She wants to provide Z with better answers than she got growing up: “Every time Z asked me a question, I would remember all the times I had asked similar questions growing up. All the things I’d been told. All the things that still didn’t make sense” (14). In this way, family inspires Mira to develop a deeper understanding of herself and her race, leading her to become a better person and a better mother.

New York City

New York City is used both as a symbol and a motif in Good Talk. Mira and her family live in Brooklyn, and it is also where Mira originally meets Jed. Thus, most of her experiences in the memoir and with her family take place in New York City, making it a symbol of home. Mira has an attachment to the city. She finds it beautiful and includes it as the backdrop of many of her pages. The tone of each photograph of New York sets the mood for the scene that includes it. For example, after Mira has lunch with Bree and hears about Bree’s daughter who died, the end of their conversation is quite dismal and depressing and it is shown over a particularly foggy, gray day in winter. In another instance, Mira is on the subway with Z as they are telling knock-knock jokes and discussing whether Z should talk to Jed about thinking his dad might be afraid of him. Behind them are photographs of the subway maps of New York. Sometimes Mira and her family are simply walking down the streets of New York City with bustling people around them—a metaphor for the way that their family is just like any other.

One of the major events of the novel is the terrorist attacks on September 11, 2001. This is foreshadowed when Mira first moves to the city and shows herself standing in between the Twin Towers in front of the Brooklyn Bridge and again when Mira tells the story of the neuropsychologist who never called her back. The attacks take place a day after Mira moves to Jed’s apartment. Mira is on the street miles away, but she can see the towers going up in smoke and slowly collapsing. She remembers people having very mild reactions at first, as nobody was sure what was going on. In the weeks following the attacks, Mira finds the level of racism she once experienced has increased to a level like never before. People assume she is a terrorist because she is brown. She describes a “Paper City” (164) made of Missing Persons posters that covered New York after the attacks and the way she felt like her own neighbors had been attacked. She depicts this with a collage of posters shaped like the World Trade Center. Mira recognizes one man in particular and “would imagine him in the rubble, waiting” (165). The people of New York feel as if they have all been attacked, Mira included. She sees a poster of a girl who is a friend of the family and who happens to look just like her, and it hits Mira that it could just as easily have been her in the rubble. Mira notes two opposite reactions to the attacks: the need to help and the need to blame someone for their fear.

New York City is a microcosm of America itself. It is a highly diverse, multicultural city (“A lot of everybody lives on our block” [7]), which is supposed to represent freedom and liberty for all with its Statue of Liberty and endless opportunities. The United States is also supposed to uphold these values, but minorities in America still do not see the benefits of what the Land of Opportunity is supposed to offer. Mira holds on to this vision of New York throughout her life, although it is often close to being destroyed. She is largely able to do so because of her son Z: “If you still have hope, my love, then so do I” (347). When New York is attacked, all of America feels assaulted, and people search for someone to blame. When that blame falls on innocent brown people, who “have every right to be here” (180), it is they who suffer. Although an attack like 9/11 should have united the country, in Mira’s experience it only tore it further apart.

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