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Goodman Sara Confino

Don't Forget to Write: A Novel

Fiction | Novel | YA | Published in 2021

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Chapters 49-60Chapter Summaries & Analyses

Chapter 49 Summary

Daniel sends Marilyn some photographs that he took of her, Ada, and Lillian. He is a skilled photographer. Rose sends a letter saying that Marilyn can attend college again in the fall, but she must live at home with her parents to ensure that she behaves. Marilyn realizes how much she does not want to return to her old life now that she has lived more freely. Ada has spoken to Walter on the phone, and he is insisting that she come home in a week. He is upset that Ada has not found a match for her and wants her to get married as soon as possible.

Chapter 50 Summary

That evening, Daniel arrives. He and Marilyn discuss their options. They could get engaged even if they do not eventually get married. To buy some time, Daniel could attend rabbinical school (despite not wanting to become a rabbi) and say that he wanted to wait to finish school before getting married so that he could properly support his wife. They could run away together and make their way, though it would be difficult with no family support. Marilyn writes a letter to her father, begging to stay with Ada and implying that she has met someone whom she could marry.

Chapter 51 Summary

Marilyn edits her manuscript as she waits to hear back from her father. She asks Ada again about her second great love, but Ada says, “No. That one belongs to me” (356). A few days later, Marylin’s parents arrive unexpectedly at Ada’s house. Walter is furious and asks her to pack her bags immediately. Ada tries to argue that Marilyn has been an indispensable help, to no avail. Marilyn insists that she would be unhappy as a housewife and suggests that Rose is already miserable. Rose clarifies that she is happy with her life. If Marilyn does not come home immediately, her parents will sit shiva for her, which means that she will be dead to them for the rest of her life, with no hope of rekindling the relationship. Marilyn expects Ada to say something to fix the situation, but Ada simply tells her to pack her bags.

Chapter 52 Summary

Marilyn cries in her room, and Ada comes upstairs to comfort her. Although Marilyn must leave now, Ada has “got tricks up [her] sleeve yet” (365). Marilyn says a miserable goodbye to Ada and Lillian. She does not want to go home, but she is glad that she got to spend time with Ada, and she knows that she needs to be strong to face what is ahead of her.

Chapter 53 Summary

Back in her childhood bedroom, Marilyn feels trapped. She receives word that Ada and Lillian are back in Philadelphia earlier than expected. Marilyn and Rose talk about Rose’s summer with Ada. She sent Marilyn to stay with Ada not as a punishment but in the hopes of helping her sort out her life. She still cannot understand that Marilyn wants a different kind of life from hers. She asks to read Marilyn’s writing and says that she once dreamed of being an editor. Marylin gives her the manuscript.

Chapter 54 Summary

On Saturday, Marilyn refuses to go to synagogue. She wants to go for a walk instead, but Walter insists that she stay in the house. After her parents leave, Daniel rings the doorbell. He tells her that he is willing to go to rabbinical school, which would buy them a two-year engagement. Out of other options, Marilyn agrees, provided that they do not necessarily have to get married after the two years are up.

Chapter 55 Summary

Daniel returns to Marilyn’s house the following afternoon. He asks for Walter’s blessing and once again proposes. When Daniel says that he will go to rabbinical school and get married in two years, Walter says that he can marry now and live in the Kleinman household until his schooling is completed. Marilyn’s parents insist on a spring wedding. The phone rings, and it is for Marilyn. Lillian is on the line: She tells Marilyn that Ada is dead.

Chapter 56 Summary

Marilyn is in shock. Lillian says that she went out to buy bagels, and when she came back, Ada had had a heart attack. Marilyn says that she will take the train to Philadelphia immediately to help Lillian with the funeral arrangements. Marilyn arrives, meets Lillian, and cries once she gets to her bedroom. Ada wanted to be cremated, which is against Jewish custom, but Lillian and Marilyn convince the rabbi to follow her wishes. Marilyn writes a eulogy for Ada.

Chapter 57 Summary

Lillian and Marilyn attend the funeral. There are many attendees, most of whom are married couples who met when Ada matched them up. Marilyn sees Thomas and hugs him. He is there with his grandmother, John’s wife. The rabbi gives the initial address and says that his parents were one of Ada’s matches. Marilyn gives her eulogy, and for a moment she thinks she sees Ada at the back of the room. After the funeral, Marilyn and Lillian sit shiva and meet with many people who want to pay their respects. Thomas comes to the house, and Marilyn tells him about Ada and John. He is surprised but pleased to learn the truth. They exchange stories about Ada, and Marilyn asks if he knows who the second love of her life was. He answers, “Not for certain, no. But I think love looks different to different folks” (402).

Chapter 58 Summary

Ada’s lawyer meets with Lillian and Marilyn to go over the will. Ada has left Marilyn nearly everything, making her extremely rich. Marilyn asks Lillian to stay in the Philadelphia house, but Lillian insists that “home was where Ada was” (406). She will go to Chicago to live with her sister. Marilyn tells the lawyer to give Frannie, Lillian, and Thomas a house each. Ada has requested that Marilyn scatter her ashes alone on the jetty at Avalon. After the lawyer leaves, Marilyn meets with Daniel and her parents in Ada’s study. She tells them that she and Daniel are staying together but will not get married. They can pursue their dreams without worrying about money anymore. Walter is angry, but Rose convinces him not to disown her. Marilyn’s mother encourages her to finish her book.

Chapter 59 Summary

Lillian leaves for Chicago but promises to keep in touch. Marilyn gives Frannie the week off and then finds herself alone in the house. She goes to Ada’s room and finds Ada’s mother’s engagement ring, which she wants to wear to signal her connection to Daniel. When she examines Ada’s closet, she finds that it has a hidden door that leads to the closet in Lillian’s room. She considers this discovery “anticlimactic.” She also finds a photo album under the bed containing only photographs of Ada and Lillian together.

Chapter 60 Summary

Daniel and Marilyn go to Avalon to scatter Ada’s ashes. Marilyn drives all the way there. At the beach house, Marilyn calls Lillian in Chicago. Her sister picks up and is very confused: Lillian is not with her, and she has sent no word suggesting that she is moving to Chicago at all. Marilyn is not sure what to make of this. Daniel and Marilyn go to the jetty, and Marilyn goes out alone with Ada’s urn. When she opens it, she finds no ashes. Instead, there is a photograph of Ada and Lillian holding hands, a postcard from Key West, and a note that reads, “My darling Marilyn, Live the life you want. Love whom you want. And don’t forget to write. XOX, Ada” (425). Abruptly, Marilyn realizes that Ada is still alive. She is in Key West with Lillian, and the two of them are not just friends and companions; they are a couple. Marilyn rushes back to Daniel and insists that they drive to Key West right away.

Chapters 49-60 Analysis

Ada’s decision to stage her death and run away to Key West with Lillian underscores her ultimate rejection of conventional societal norms and desire to live authentically with her partner. There are several hints throughout this section that Ada is still alive. She once told Marilyn that she wanted to go to Key West to retire because nobody knew her there. When Marilyn leaves Avalon, Ada says that she has tricks up her sleeve. Marilyn thinks that she sees Ada at the funeral, and she eventually realizes that she is correct. The recurring hints and Marilyn’s eventual realization that Ada is still alive highlight Ada’s strategic out-maneuvering of expectations to maintain her freedom and begin Living a Nontraditional Life in ways that were not possible in Philadelphia.

Marilyn has a final confrontation with the restrictions of Family and Duty in this section. She realizes that if she goes home, she must live in her childhood bedroom, giving up all the freedom that she has enjoyed over the summer. She also realizes that living with Ada was not a punishment; it was an experience of growth. This realization provides a stark contrast between the independence she has experienced and the restrictive environment of her familial home. Her desire for independence is not something that her parents, especially her father, can accept. Her father’s ultimatum to sit shiva for her if she does not return home reflects the extreme pressure that her family places on her to conform to traditional expectations. Through this threat, the author highlights the conflict between personal autonomy and familial duty near its breaking point. When Marilyn tries to explain that being a housewife would not make her happy, Walter asks if she is “some kind of deviant” (361). Walter’s derogatory question highlights his intolerance for any deviations from traditional norms, which includes not wanting to be a housewife. Sitting shiva for his living daughter reflects the severity of his intolerance, as it equates her disobedience with death.

When it comes to Romance and Making Matches, Marilyn and Daniel are the opposite of Ada and her fiancé. They love each other, but they do not want to be married. Their approach to romance represents a more modern approach, where emotional connection and mutual respect are prioritized over traditional gendered marital expectations. Ada and her fiancé were not in love but were willing to marry. In the last few chapters of the book, there are more and more hints that Lillian and Ada are in love. Thomas comments on different kinds of love, and Marilyn finds a hidden door connecting their bedrooms. She also finds the photo album under Ada’s bed. There is no indication in the text that Marilyn even vaguely suspects that they are a couple until the last page of the story. Marilyn’s delayed realization and inability to come to this knowledge even after numerous strong clues establishes how a lesbian relationship was unconventional at the time, defying norms in ways that Marilyn herself cannot grasp.

Daniel and Marilyn continue making strides toward living a nontraditional life and find that the main challenge is money. If they were cut off from their parents and had limited income sources, their life together would be free but difficult. This financial challenge illustrates the practical barriers to living a non-conventional life and pursuing one’s aspirations. When Marilyn inherits Ada’s money, her life suddenly opens up, as she and Daniel can live however they choose without worrying about money. The inheritance represents a transformative moment that removes financial constraints, something that women were especially aware of at the time, allowing Marilyn and Daniel to live their lives as they choose. Marilyn’s parents must respect her choices simply because they no longer have any material way to control her. Rose genuinely wants her to be happy, but Walter’s support is more reluctant. Ada also remains nontraditional to the last moment. Ada’s decision for an unconventional cremation, coupled with her staged death, reflects her ongoing refusal of traditional norms and her commitment to living on her terms—now in Key West with Lillian. With Marilyn and Daniel already planning to visit, the author foreshadows the continued blueprint that Ada will offer her great-niece.

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